Notes to self

Notes to self

Dec 12

Written By Ruth Valenzuela

be honest

even when it would be easier to stay quiet

be understanding

because everyone is carrying something unseen

be loyal

not only to others

but to your own values

be truthful

even when your voice shakes

be open minded

let the world be bigger than your assumptions

be thoughtful

with your words

they live longer than you think

be considerate

empathy is a quiet power

be reliable

be someone who keeps their promises

be mature

choose growth over ego

be kind

especially when it is inconvenient

be friendly

warmth changes rooms

be happy

or at least allow yourself the chance to be

be unselfish

but not at the cost of your own peace

be cheerful

find light where you can

be broad minded

curiosity keeps you alive

be tactful

truth does not need cruelty

be appreciative

notice the small mercies

be respectful

to others

and to yourself

be grateful

even for lessons disguised as loss

be observant

there is meaning in the details

be lively

let your spirit move freely

be creative

turn your life into art

but most important

be yourself

not a diluted version

not a quieter version

not the version that fits someone else’s comfort